Hello!

YOUR PLEASURE CEREMONIALIST offers 1:1 holistic pleasure coaching, herbal consultations, co-created pleasure ceremonies, energy work, and body work sessions and is available for events, workshops, and festivals.

This work is an ancestral reclamation practice that honors the magic of the earth tenders and energy workers who came before me. While moving deeper into my explorations of healing work, I noticed a tendency for the erotic to be left out and actively ignored. I began to wonder what would happen if we intentionally focused on the erotic and saw it for what it was - that which connects us to the infinite world and larger ecology we are embedded in.

To me, an eco-erotic practice asks the question: How can the erotic be the way to reclaiming our bodies, our power, and our ability to connect with ourself, each other, and the more-than-humxn world around us?

As an eco-erotic worker, eco-fetishist, and curious earth dweller:

  • I am in deep collaboration with the Earth, as friend, lover, and steward.

  • I believe pleasure is true presence and sacred listening.

  • I think of desire as a compass, a guiding force, and my juicy attention.

  • I experience sensuality as being present everywhere in nature and the world around me.

  • I understand that histories and current realities of colonialism, capitalism, and patriarchy have created land and water wounds by introducing violence and disconnection to our relationships with our own body, each other, and the land.

  • I am not interested in upholding hierarchies of “master” or “healer,” in regards to this work.

Pleasure Ceremony is about creating space to truly feel, breathe, and experience this world anew by tracking our own sensations of pleasure, safety, and power directly from our bodies and in collaboration with the Earth. This practice is about healing our land, body, and water disconnections through erotic embodiment as much as it about making our own meaning through play!

It is about shedding all notions and fixed binaries that have limited our experience of life, connection, and creativity. It is about honoring our relationships with plants, humxns, and other-than-humxn beings. And it is about opening individual and collective portals to bring about a deeper sense of inner knowing.

Through pleasure ceremonies we participate in magic making, creating the radical futures we want to inhabit in our present time. A journey with me is unique and complex. At my core I am an artist seeking creative explorations and space to be endlessly curious about our many bodies, all our bodies, including the emotional, energetic, and physical bodies. I am curious about the powers of touch, presence, attention, and connection and how to elevate their energy through rituals, ceremonies, and the expansive worlds of kink and BDSM.

As your guide, I design sensory experiences for those who are seeking to create new pathways toward pleasure and transformation that are rooted in joy, curiosity, and collaboration. Any work we do together is designed to help you become more alive and more empowered.

If you’re interested in working with me 1:1, Connect Here.

Sign up to take Bloom: An Embodied Listening Immersion. It is the perfect introduction to this work.

PLEASURE IS FOR OUR HIGHEST GOOD AND THE HIGHEST GOOD OF ALL.

WE ARE RECLAIMING OUR BODIES, ALL OF THEM.

Lineage and Acknowledgements

This work means so much to me and I am eternally grateful for all the teachers, mentors, and opportunities who have supported me in this beautiful blossoming. Here are a few:

  • I completed the six month Sacred Energy Immersion in 2021 with Zel Amanzi where I developed my intuitive abilities alongside understandings of how a anticolonial energy work practice is an artform I can use with self and others. I continued studying with them through their Sacred Witness Immersion and learned how to better hold a trauma-informed space.

  • I developed my understanding of sacred energy and the Usui lineage of Reiki with Marika Clymer in a year-long Energetic Sovereignty program.

  • I studied with Amy Grace, a self-development coach specializing in sensual healing, and Barbara Carrellas in the 2021 Urban Tantra Professional Program where I deepened my practice around erotic energy and body work and kink/bdsm.

  • Endless thanks to my plant medicine trainings through xóchicoatl in La Mala Yerba and Reneé Camila, and Samantha Ray Roberts Now and Then Herbal Apprenticeship. I also continued my studies with Terra Sylva School of Botanical Medicine.

  • Answering the calling to move deeper into my sexuality studies and coaching, I am currently a student of Layla Martin’s Tantric Institute of Integrated Studies.

  • My practice is informed by my lived experiences as a black, queer, kinky, agender person. I have practiced non-monogamy since 2017 and am a working artist and SWer.

  • Special Thanks also to Lyndsey Harrington’s Wingmakers Project whose program was instrumental in helping me launch Pleasure Ceremony.

My work is for people of all genders, sexuality, and race and I am also SW-friendly.

—— currently based in Brooklyn, NY on Lenape Land.